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Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Early marriage or higher education ?



Q : Im a 20 year old stuck with an odd choice between marriage with a desirable boy and an opportunity to do a higher-level degree. If I choose one the other wont workout. So which one could be better???


A : Its  better  to ask yourself not strangers.


 This depends on two things.





1. How much do you care for that boy. How important  is he to you.
 DO YOU LOVE HIM.
If you choose the higher degree will you regret not marring him?
 Will he always be the one that got away?

2. How much of a higher-level degree do you wish to achieve. How will this better your future, how much more money can you really make and is it worth the sacrifice ?

 Would you be happy going to university  for a few more years.

I believe in love but that is my opinion. I am 20 and so is my husband my husband is in college and he is still able to have his cake and eat it too.

He wanted to continue his college and he wanted to be married. I sacfrice some on my part to support us but I love him and I feel he is worth it. You can always go back to college but you can't get a love back that is taken by another.

Best of luck to you and trust your heart and ask God to guide you.

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